His Character

So here we go! 

Who exactly do you consider to be the perfect guy? I'm not going to try to turn you into some high-maintenance, hyperpicky naysayer. I just want you to stop kissing frogs and start finding your man but doesn't mean that you're so desperate to find someone! No!

I'm going to tell you a story. Quite a funny one for me actually. While I'm doing this, a minute ago, someone just ask me out! I'm so speechless. I don't even know who he is! I was just doing my work, downloading some videos while finding some ideas for my blog when suddenly a guy came (he looks like a 28-years bachelor, wearing baju melayu with blue jeans on) and sat next to me.

"Assalamualaikum."

"Waalaikumsalam."

"Kalau awak tak keberatan, saya nak berkenalan."

"Haa haa um okay boleh." (Semak je dia ni!)
"Nama awak apa?"
"Wani" (I shouldn't have told him my name. Ahh!)
"Nama saya Wan." 
*Smile* (Nama sibuk je nak dekat, aku Wani dia Wan!)
"Awak tengah buat apa tu? Kerja?"
"Tak. Tengah download movie."
"Kpop ke?"
*Smile* (Ada ke movie Kpop? Mangkuk ayun betul!)
"Awak balik pukul berapa ni? Kalau tak keberatan saya nak.."
"Kejap lagi. Nak ambik adik kat sekolah" (Should've told him I'm going to pick up 'my son'!)
"Oh baru nak ajak minum.." (Eeuww tak malunya!)
"Takpelah, takde rezeki!"
"Kalau tak keberatan, boleh bagi phone number?"
"Um boleh. Nah *tulis nombor atas kertas* (OMG I'm such a fool for giving him my real number. Sh**!)
"Terima kasih. Selamat berkenalan." 
*Smile and walk away*

I walked away, cursing myself for being such a stupid person! I warn you, don't ever ever do what I did just now! Oh my! I've lost all of the ideas! Hahahaha! But let's forget it! Let's get back to the topic!

What we're describing now is the guy who will ring your bell & light you up. I'm going to list down a few personality of a person and I want you to get the picture of it.

• Funny - Makes me laugh my ass off when i'm having a bad day, which I haven't done since I saw the Just For Laugh gags on the television. Plus, I'm tend to be a serious person and want to lighten up some.
• Serious - Isn't afraid to think or to talk about a deeper conversation with me. I'm a serious person and the class clown is the last person I want to be with.
• Leader - Knows how to take charge both at home and at work, so I feel save knowing that if things get out of control, he can step in and make it right.
• Supportive - Boost my ego with plenty of praise and stands behind me no matter what happens. 
• Intellectual - I like to learn new things from my partner and I wish he can participate in doing the things with me.
• Emotional - Feels deeply and can relate to me on more than an intellectual level. This is important because I've an emotional lifestyle and I need someone who understands the side of me.
• Honest - Doesn't play games but if forthright with me, even when it's not easy - such as when he accidentally met his ex lover or whatsoever.
• Carefree - Helps me escape from all my stress with his easy-going, go-with-the-flow attitude. This is great because life is too short to worry all the time.
• Responsible - Can be relied upon to do what he says he will do. I hate irresponsible person!
• Wise - Thinks before he acts because he has learned from his experience. This is important to me because sometimes I need guidance and would love to have a partner who can give me some real advice.
• Religious - He has faith in his God and worshiped Him. This is important because he can always remind me of God.

Now, let's decide what you'd like Mr. Amazing to look like. Some would say that looks doesn't matter but come on!

• Hair color, hair style - Black, Brown, Blonde? English style, Kpop looks? 
• Eye color - Black, Brown, Blue, Green, Red perhaps?
• Age - Young boy, Old man, 3-5 years older than me?
• Height - Shorty, 10-20 cm taller than me, just-my-height tall?
• Body type - Athletic, Skinny, Muscular, Average size?
• Voice - Husky, Soft, Just-nice voice?

I know that you've got some of your target. I know it's very hard to achieve but let me remind, this is just a target. Not some guy who fits the suit and all your criteria. It takes time to find and while you're searching for it, I hope you don't fall with the 'Bad Boy Bait'! He might fit the criteria you want but don't jump into conclusion that he's the best for you! Be observant and be careful!

*P/s: Alright! I'm sure you already get the picture of 'his character'. I'll share more about 'your character' in the next entry. Stay tuned!

Love,

W.