You, me, all of us tend to seek one another's company - mentally, physically, spiritually. Just being around other people doesn't seem to be enough. As human beings, we tend to pair off seeking more than to just 'hangout' with random people. We seem to need to fall in love, be in love & share love.
Some of my friends saying for some reason, they just can't seem to find someone who is willing to share the two little words, 'we' and 'us'. They tell me they just can't date and if they do, they'll ended up dating the wrong person.
These are some of their stories :
1) The last time I had a date , I think that he actually called me by mistake and was too embarrassed to admit it! He ate lunch like was chased by a loan-sharks and he didn't even bother to talk to me. All he did was smiling and it seems he was being forced to do it!
2) The last date I had was with a 'gym guy' who spent hours telling me about muscles, exercise and even sexy lady who came at his gym! Oh my! By the time he was done, I was just looking for one to jump out of.
3) I once had a date with this handsome guy but he's too picky over his looks! He'll comb his hair every 10 mins and he wears lip balm too! He once scold me because I wore all black and he said "Are you a widower? Please wear something fancy next time!"
If you're up at night wondering why everybody around you, except you, is in a great relationships, getting engaged and getting married, then you don't have to worry about it. Your time hasn't come yet but there's way for you to achieve it!
I believe with great certainty that this special someone does exist. He's out there! He might be someone you haven't met. To make it interesting, who knows you may have already met him or you may even had a relationship with him but just can't move it to the next level.
To get the relationship you want, you have to be willing to change what you're doing. Look at what's going on and what's going wrong. Having a man in your life is something that can be good, if you find the right one! It's healthy to want and have a boyfriend or husband (not at the same time, of course). But this is not something that you need or must have!
How exciting, how much fun it is to know that each and every day could be the day when you meet the person of your dreams, the person with whom you'll spend the rest of your life? I'll be excited but I have no intentions on having a boyfriend or getting married in this period of time. Hahahaha! I'm pretty sure you don't need an advice from someone who don't even have a boyfriend but trust me, I've been through quite a lot of relationships and I know what's wrong and i'm going to tell you that!
Let's continue! Um where are we? Oh. If you do not have what you want in a relationship, then there's something wrong but what is wrong is not you. I repeat, the problem is not you! I know that some of you might have question this "How do I compete with all the pretty girls?" I bet there's some of you stands in front of the mirror, saying "Look at my hair! Look at that face! That body! I'm so ugly!" Well, snap out of it! You don't have to be the beauty queen to fall in love! Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder! You're going to have to understand yourself and know yourself - before he ever falls in love with you, you're going to have to fall in love with you. Self love is very important!
We're not trying to find Mr. Right Now, it's about finding Mr. Right! Close the deal about finding any man but about creating a relationship with the right man!
*P/s: I'll tell more about this in my next entry. I gotta go. My brother's sick and I need to bring him to the doctor. Stay tuned!
Love,
W.
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