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I've been asked by many about how to end relationship properly. Well, relationships doesn’t always work out and it would be best to end things properly. Maybe you’re trying to analyze what happened after it ends or maybe you remained friends with someone after a break up and still question why the relationship ended. Whatever the problem is, the opportunity for a romantic relationship is no longer there!
But is it healthy?
1. THEY WERE no emotional feelings
Sometimes people really are overwhelmed by their emotions to the point of not accepting a new relationship. Think of times in your life when you have been too busy, felt depressed or unaccomplished or had just left a relationship. There was probably a time you did not want to enter another one. But, listen here. If you had met someone special, someone you could see a future with during that time, would you have given them a chance? Emotionally unavailability does happen, but most people will suddenly become available when there is a person they want to be with. If he put in no effort into your relationship and the next girl gets a ton of attention, be happy you got away. He would never have changed for you so leave him!
2. IT’S NOT about YOU, IT’S about ME!
When you over analyze a previous relationship it can become very one-sided. You, after all, only have access to your own memories and your own beliefs. People are naturally, and healthily, narcissistic in this way. You,caused problems in the relationship. So did that jerk who dumped you! Does it matter who caused more? The fact is that you and he did not work together as a pair!
3. If IT’S MEANT TO BE, IT WILL BE.
I've used this saying for family and friends and it has been said by family and friends to me as well. In and of itself, this is not bad advice. Really! It's true, if your relationship is meant to be, it would have lasted or it will happen in the future. The problem is if you are not over the relationship, this saying can be a sign of hope. A desperate mind can twist the phrase into meaning you and your ex are destined to be together in the future, which can make it harder for you to move on and even turn into a full on obsession!
Remember sweetie, we can be disappointed and hurt then, through time, we can learn how to feel and love again. I hope you can still see the love inside you and other people too.
Love,
W
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